How to Become a Better Public Speaker: Real Tips from Real Experience

Public speaking is something many people fear but it doesn’t have to be. After years of speaking at conferences, panels, events, and even giving a TEDx talk, I’ve learned that great public speaking doesn’t come from perfection. It comes from connection. Whether you’re stepping onto a stage, addressing a boardroom, or hosting an event, here are some tried-and-tested tips that can truly elevate your presence and your confidence:

  1. Speak About What You’re Passionate About

 Nothing resonates more with an audience than genuine enthusiasm. When you speak from the heart about something you believe in—whether it’s wellness, sustainability, leadership, or your personal story—people feel it. You don’t have to be an expert in everything, but be an expert in what lights you up.

 2. Wear Simple, Flattering, Comfortable Clothes (in Striking Colours!)

It might sound superficial, but your outfit matters. Not because it should distract from your message—but because it can enhance it. Choose clothing that is:

• Comfortable (so you’re not fidgeting or adjusting)

• Flattering (so you feel your best)

• Visually striking (so you’re memorable, especially on stage or camera)

 Think clear colours, clean lines, and something that reflects your personality without taking the spotlight from your spotlight.

 3. Be Authentic—Always

 There is no “public speaker version” of you. The most compelling speakers are the ones who are real. If you’re nervous, say it. If you have a story, tell it. Vulnerability builds trust—and trust builds impact. There's nothing worse than seeing a speaker trying to be someone they are obviously not, the audience can sense it and it will backfire. 

 4. Connect With Your Audience (Really Look at Them!)

 Don’t just scan the room. Make eye contact. Pause. Smile. Speak to people, not at them. When you truly connect with your audience—whether it’s 10 or 1,000—they’ll remember both your words and your presence. They will also be less likely to get distracted, look at the phones, chat to the person next to them. Demand their attention by making it personal and showing them how your words will help them, not promote yourself. 

5.Breathe and Pause

 Single words are powerful. Don’t rush through your talk just to get to the end. Pause for emphasis. Breathe between thoughts. Give your words space to land. Sometimes less really is more. There's a fine line between giving the audience lots of information and being memorable. Use stories to help make your point. That’s where the magic happens.

 6. Prepare—but Don’t Memorise

 I've tried both and even read experts saying that talks should be memorized. After trying it, i can honestly say that I utterly disagree. How can you make your words personal when you don't see you audience? Each audience reacts and needs different aspects of your knowledge. So.... Know your key points. Practice them. But don’t over-script. The goal is to communicate, not perform. The more natural and conversational you are, the more engaged your audience will be.

 The truth is, anyone can become a better public speaker. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about being present and being YOU. The more you speak from your truth, the more powerful your message becomes.

 So the next time you step up to speak, remember: dress like yourself (just elevated), breathe, look your audience in the eye and let your passion lead the way.

 If you'd like to learn more about my talks or where you can find me next, just let me know. 

Farah Shammas

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